How is someone going to come to me, preface their statements with “I need to not be mad at you anymore,” and then demand I apologize to someone else, for something I said, that they had a great big laugh at? Not only did they have a great big laugh at it, but they jumped at the chance to share what I said with someone else, so they could also have a great big laugh at it as well. And now, THREE whole days later, they come at me, pissed off, and tell me I NEED to apologize.
If you actually expect an apology, I’m afraid it doesn’t work that way. Holding some misguided Sword of Damocles made of anger over me, so that I’ll apologize to a third party? ‘Fraid not. I wouldn’t even consider apologizing regardless of all this. Not when I was the one being antagonized to begin with. I certainly didn’t get any apology, and neither did I ever expect one. If people are gonna act bitchy, they can at least expect that I’m gonna be bitchy in return.
And then they wonder why I never come out of my room. Gee.